Do You Trust Your Partner?

This post was initially posted anonymously on a “no name” blog I was writing. I no longer can sustain having multiple blogs, so I am transferring some of the content here.

couple, kiss, blue“Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.” ~ Stephen R. Covey

Trust is a complicated issue. It depends on so many factors – what kind of family you grew up in, how many times you were lied to in the past, your own insecurities and doubts, but I have to agree, that trust is one of the most important ingredients of a healthy and happy relationship.

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Friendship Between A Woman and A Man – Does It Exist?

This post was initially posted anonymously on a “no name” blog I was writing. I no longer can sustain having multiple blogs, so I am transferring some of the content here.

boy, girl, friendsA personal opinion based on my own life experience.

It is difficult for me to believe in friendship in general. I have heard great stories about friendship, I have watched movies, I have read about it. But I have never seen it with my own eyes.

All the friendships, I have ever created, regardless with women or men, went crumbling down, leaving behind them only the firm proof that friendship does not exist in nature.

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Are You A Super Mom And Woman?

This post was initially posted anonymously on a “no name” blog I was writing. I no longer can sustain having multiple blogs, so I am transferring some of the content here.

mother, daughter, corn field, love, connectionReminder: This is my very personal opinion. You are free to disagree, but no hair pulling, please. 😀 Just politely state your opinion in the comment section! 😉

Who are the super Moms out there?

They are the women whose children are always neat, taught to behave perfectly, their houses always sparkle. Those women look fantastic, they are in perfect physical shape and are dressed impeccably. They look glamorous from the moment they open their eyes in the morning while still in bed. They are passionate lovers, interesting company. They also are on the top of their careers and specialists like them are hard to find.

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Does Your Partner Genuinely Love You? Don’t Tell Your Friends!

This post was initially posted anonymously on a “no name” blog I was writing. I no longer can sustain having multiple blogs, so I am transferring some of the content here.

couple in the field“Never tell your problems to anyone…20% don’t care and the other 80% are glad you have them.” ~  Lou Holtz

The situation is analogical with happiness and success. Don’t share it too much around, or even better, don’t share it at all.

One of the weak sides of people is that they can’t take someone else’s happiness. Everyone leads their own battle and everyone wants to be happy. When people are happy they want others to be happy too. Usually. There are also people who want happiness only for themselves. They want others to be observers of their happiness and God forbid if those observers take care of their own happiness.

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The Things You Do Together

This post was initially posted anonymously on a “no name” blog I was writing. I no longer can sustain having multiple blogs, so I am transferring some of the content here.

couple on beach, rocks, loveYou meet. You fall in love. You wish to spend together every second. You want to know everything about him/her. You are curious about their interests and hobbies. What do they like? What makes them happy? Everything about them is so exciting! You even find yourself liking things, you never liked before.

And then, when time passes, you know each other better, the fog starts lifting and you lose excitement about his/her interests. Do you not love them anymore? Is the magic over?

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